1. A woman with a firm handshake
I don’t know about you, but I appreciate a confident, firm handshake when shaking another woman’s hand. Nothing is worse than going in for an assertive grip only to be met by a feeble handshake in return . Those limp hand shakes are for the birds, and leave me asking, “What woman started this wimpy habit?” I think there is something so refreshing about a woman with some substance behind that palm. To me, it says, “I’m a strong, capable, secure woman, and I’m not afraid to show it.” C’mon ladies, men do it, so why don’t we?
2. Eating dinner alone
When I was younger I hated being alone. I could easily spend days and nights completely consumed by hanging out with my friends. In fact, the first day I met my friend Reagan, we ended up spending nearly a week together, going back and forth to each others apartments. I still love my friends (and my husband), but I no longer mind eating dinner alone. I could easily go sit by myself at a café or diner and be completely content there alone without anyone else to talk to. I think with age you start to appreciate alone time more (at least I do), and those times where you can turn your brain off become highly underrated.
3. Comfortable Silence
It goes something like this:
Mia: Don’t you hate that?
Mia: Uncomfortable silences. Why do we feel it’s necessary to yak about bulls*it in order to be comfortable?
Vincent: I don’t know. That’s a good question.
Mia: That’s when you know you’ve found somebody special. When you can just shut up for a minute and comfortably enjoy the silence.
P.S. Isn’t that true?
4. Getting lost
I hate to sound cliché, but everything really does happen for a reason. Sometimes it’s good to be lost, and sometimes it’s good to not have your life completely planned out. Trust me, I learned this one the hard way. I spent most of my early 20’s trying to control everything and everyone who walked into and out of my life. Finally something clicked one day, and I realized that living my life this way made me miserable, so I decided to make a change. One of the best times of my life was when I decided to stop looking at the big picture, just take each day at a time, and give myself permission to flounder…and do you want to know a secret? I became happier, and something wonderful happened. I met Matt, who eventually became my husband. You might think something is right for you, whether it be a job, relationship, etc., but it might not be what is best for you. If you refuse to let yourself be lost, than you never allow yourself to truly be found.
5. Handwritten letters sent in the mail
In a generation where we can connect with people all over the world in a matter of seconds, it’s almost impossible to not take advantage of the internet and email. However, I think sending a good, old-fashioned letter or card in the mail is completely underrated. Think about it. What if you opened your mailbox today, and received a note from a friend telling you how much they missed you, instead of simply writing it on your Facebook wall. How special would that make you feel? Yep, pretty special. That’s what I thought
6. Electric blankets
The fact that I found this picture, where the model is trying her best to look super cool as she is luxuriously wrapped up in the electric blanket, is so funny to me. So, I know we’re moving in on summer here, but I’ve got to tell you, electric blankets are totally underrated. If you’ve ever slept in one, especially in the dead of winter, than you know exactly what I’m talking about. It’s warm…it’s cozy…and it’s phenomenal…Enough said.
7. Diners, Drive-In’s and Dives
I am seriously obsessed with this show, and think it’s the bomb. Let me guess, you’ve never heard of it, right? That doesn’t surprise me, because every time I try to shoot the sh*t with someone about it, they have no idea what I’m talking about. If you’ve never seen it, it’s basically a cooking show where the host, Guy Fieri, travels around the United States in search of the best diners, drive-in’s and dives. It’s not your average cooking show, in that it doesn’t go into all the tedious step by step process of a recipe, but it does give you a recap of numerous cooks whipping up deliciously unhealthy grub that is sure to make your mouth water. In a nutshell, this show is entertaining and tons of fun, but completely underrated, because hardly anyone has heard of it.
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